The Connected Child by Dr. Karyn Purvis Verified listing

When it comes to parenting children from difficult backgrounds—such as those who have been adopted, are in foster care, or have experienced trauma—the traditional parenting techniques often don’t work. These children may struggle with attachment, emotional regulation, and trust, which can make connecting with them a challenge.

The Connected Child by Karyn B. Purvis, David R. Cross, and Wendy Lyons Sunshine offers parents, caregivers, and professionals effective, research-backed strategies to build trust, foster connection, and promote healing in children who have experienced trauma. The book presents a compassionate, relationship-based approach to parenting that emphasizes the importance of nurturing care and understanding in the healing process.

This is not about “fixing” your child or using punitive measures—it’s about understanding your child’s emotional needs, creating a safe environment, and developing a connection that fosters healing.

🧡 Best for parents who...

• Are parenting children who have experienced trauma, neglect, or abuse
• Want to learn how to build trust and emotional connection with their child
• Struggle with challenging behaviors like meltdowns, aggression, or withdrawal
• Are seeking effective, trauma-informed strategies for everyday parenting

💛 Best for children who...

• Have experienced attachment disruptions or traumatic experiences
• Struggle with emotional regulation, trust, or forming secure relationships
• Feel disconnected or misunderstood in their relationships with caregivers
• Benefit from consistent, compassionate, and understanding parenting

🧠 Why It Helps:
The Connected Child provides practical, trauma-informed strategies that help parents build emotional connection and trust, reduce challenging behaviors, and create a safe, nurturing environment where children can heal. This approach is designed to meet the unique needs of children who have experienced adversity.

💡 What’s Inside:

• Techniques for fostering emotional regulation, attachment, and trust
• Real-life examples and strategies that can be used immediately
• Tools for navigating difficult behaviors and building strong, healthy relationships
• A focus on creating a safe, stable, and supportive environment for healing

The Connected Child empowers parents to be the healing force in their child’s life, helping them build a strong bond, navigate challenging moments, and lay the foundation for a thriving, emotionally secure future.