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Some kids are always trying to be the best—louder, faster, smarter. But what happens when a friendship starts to feel like a competition?

Better Than You is a thoughtful picture book that explores the effects of constant one-upmanship on peer relationships. Told through the eyes of a boy named Tyler, the story follows his experience dealing with a classmate who always brags and tries to outdo everyone. With the help of a supportive adult, Tyler learns to set boundaries, recognize his own worth, and redefine what real friendship looks like.

Written by acclaimed author Trudy Ludwig and paired with engaging illustrations, this book is a powerful tool for building empathy, self-confidence, and healthy social skills.

🧡 Best for parents who...

• Want to help their child navigate bragging, comparison, or exclusion
• Are supporting kids dealing with difficult peer dynamics
• Value stories that promote kindness, empathy, and assertiveness
• Appreciate SEL-based books that are relatable and realistic

💛 Best for kids who...

• Struggle with comparing themselves to others
• Feel frustrated by friends who brag or show offNeed tools to protect their self-esteem and handle social tension
• Enjoy real-world stories that reflect common school experiences

🧠 Why It Helps:
Better Than You helps children understand the difference between confidence and arrogance, and shows how respect and empathy are the foundation of strong friendships. It empowers kids to stand tall without putting others down.

💡 What’s Inside:

• A 32-page picture book with realistic dialogue and expressive illustrations
• Ideal for ages 6–11 (Early to Late Elementary)
• Includes an author’s note with tips for parents and educators
• Perfect for classroom discussions, counseling, or home reading

Because true confidence isn’t about being better—it’s about being kind.